Friday, October 17, 2008

一杯水已能比喻人生

Caught this story from my frend. She posted it on her blog. Thanks KhamYu.. not bad. its nice and simple to understand.. Check it Out... I summerised it actually.hahaha..

從廚房拿出一大堆杯子擺在茶几上。
這些杯子各式各樣,形態各異,
有瓷器的,有玻璃的,有塑膠的,有的杯子看起來豪華而高貴,有的則顯得普通而簡陋...
老師說: 「你們要是渴了,就自己倒水喝吧。」
大家便紛紛拿了自己看中的杯子倒水喝。
老師又發言了!
他指著茶儿上剩下的杯子說: 「你們有沒有發現,你們手裏的杯子是最好看最別緻的杯子,而像這些塑膠杯沒有人選中它。」
老師說:這就是你們煩惱的根源了! 大家需要的是水,而非杯子,
但我們有意無意地會去選擇漂亮的杯子。
這就如我們的生活---如果生活是水的話,那麼,工作、金錢、地位這些東西就是杯子,
它們只是我們盛起生活之水的工具。
其實,杯子的好壞並不影響水的品質,如果將心思花在杯子上,
大家還有心情去品嘗水的苦甜,這不就是自尋煩惱嗎?
當我們放棄追尋外在的物欲與享樂,轉而開始追尋內心世界裡的財富時,
快樂的腳步就離我們越來越近了!
在這一個例子中,原來,一杯水,就可以比喻人生!
人要工作.金錢.伴侶等等,都要因為生活!
但已經有了剩水的器皿,為何總之要追求奢華的生活?
假若是你,當你是教授的舊學生時,你會否不自覺的取了一個花杯子來喝呢?
或者,你在生活中,心中總有著要求取或嫁個有錢人,
心中想著升職,賭馬賭波六合彩想他中獎?
與其是者,我們應否要穩定而自足的生活?

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Bad Bad Bad Day...


today is a bad bad day..
  • 1st I waited for my dad to be home hoping to get car by 6pm inorder to reach Thank You Dinner at Buona vista by 7..dad called up and say will delay till 6.30pm than can reach home.
  • than upon reaching, i step into the car, and began driving off ..gear1, Bang..i crash into a car. not crash but i knock into a car tt drove pass me, its my fault as i did not see it at my blind spot..damn..its just like the Pic..but minor damage wan..cuz we are at super low speed..the owner came down and we confronted eachother.But due to both of us in a rush, we exchange number and agree to settle the matter later. his car side got abit of scratches while my bumper there had some paint knocked off..SIAN..
  • i went to pick ChingTing up and we speed off to Buona Vista..Suppose to go thru BKE to clementi rd..i was too worried about the crashing tt i drove to KJE..wah kao.damn suay..end up i need to do a big round to PIE to clementi rd..
  • And wats worst.. i missed the exit..and headed to Lonie road. followed by Adams road.. and than to ferrar Rd..than to Commonwealth Rd...to Buona Vista MRT..and chingting counted for me.. 4 U turns i made..cuz i missed the exit...than Uturn..than miss again..
This Road i will rmb for Life..confirm..the whole journey took 1HR 30mins!!!!



  • Reaching NTU alumni..the guy called me. Luckily he said let the matter ease off..and i apologize deeply. Phew..
only after this, than i peacefully sat down and enjoy the Thank You Dinner..
After that i send my frends back..going back only take 30mins man..
Shall not miss the exit again!..